洪忍雜筆

I think that people almost judge a person by his or her appearance when they meet each other at first time.

The first image we see a stranger would be the most reference for us to judge the guy.

Often people who have good looking will be so popular .

Instead,people who don't have good looking is not so popular when we meet at first time.

Thus,Having good lookings is easier to earn other people's touching!!

I  used to be one of  the most people!!

Good lookings is one of the most important reference by us to choose people to be our friend or lover!!

Seldom exception!!

After so many years,till now,I finally find beautiful looking would be one important reference for me to choose girlfriend but having  nice mind is more important reference !!

Especially that I have ever sawn lot's of girls having beautiful lookings.

Now I think good looking would be a mask letting us have wrong judgement!!

For avoiding the wrong judgement situation,I do some special practices.

I think that I suceed.

Now I would not be attracted by girls who just have beautiful lookings.

fethermore,I don't like girls using good lookings as tools to let people do things for them!!

Maybe I would think girls having good lookings are charming at first,but I will soon observe that girls have nice mind and behavior or not!!

Now I would not run after a girl just because of her beautiful appearance.

Besides good lookings,I salo attend to  that she has nice mind and behavior or not.

As the ideal girl is so hard to find ,I decide that let love affairs to be happend naturally!!

As time goes by, people change and grow.

After so many years ,I understand there are many things cannot be held by my own.

Love affairs is one of those things....

Beautiful lookings would be important reference for us to choose friends and other half.

But I should know that Having nice mind and good behavior would be more important !!

Of course,If people who have good looking and  nice mind is the best !!

Wish we could all meet nice guys in our lives!!

Good luck!!Everydody!!

Max Hung